ACTIVITIES FOR DEMENTIA
The Key to Quality of Life
The Key to Quality of Life
Recreational activities play an important role when it comes to defining our own Quality of Life. We tend to do things that are relaxing, bring pleasure, stimulate our curiosity, or expand our knowledge about something significant to us. Each of us chooses activities based on our interests and abilities.
People who have dementia need access to recreational activities, too; this is as much a moral imperative as it is an issue of care and disease management. As it is for the rest of us, their recreational activities need to be in harmony with their abilities and interests.
“Activity” can refer to almost everything we do throughout the day. I suppose that technically, even sleeping is an activity. For our purposes we define activity as something that is participated in actively. Manipulation of a toy or a puzzle is an activity. Painting a picture is an activity. So is doing Yoga or simple stretching exercises. Enjoying the smell of rosemary wafting from an aromatherapy diffuser is not, although this does have value for people with dementia.
Activities for dementia need not come in a box and be bought at a store (or on a website). Gardening, dish-washing and other housework, sorting old photos; all of these can be therapeutic activities. As always, make choices based on the individual’s interests.
Read more about why appropriate activity is an essential part of Alzheimer’s and dementia care.
We have looked for activities that are suited to people with dementia. However, since the disease progresses in stages, all of the recommendations you find here and in our store will not necessarily be right for everyone. As the caregiver, the one who knows the individual’s interests and abilities, you will make the choices. By sharing our experiences with you and making it possible for you to share your experiences with other visitors to this website, we hope to help you find the best activities for those in your care.
The concept of stage-appropriateness can be a little hard to understand, especially as it relates to a person who has dementia, who is not able to do the things he or she used to do. This video makes the concept much more clear:
One concern of many caregivers is that some activities they see people with Alzheimer’s participating in are demeaning to the individual. Alison Mahoney addresses this concern in a study published in the American Journal of Alzheimer’s Disease and Other Dementias. She maintains that, “stage-appropriate activities do not demean dementia patients when caregivers present play as a legitimate recreation and create a sense of fun and interest.”
Our experience agrees with this view. Bernice truly enjoyed the activities that Holly did with her, even though they were sometimes designed for a much younger crowd. And that enjoyment benefited her physically, emotionally, and cognitively.
For Bernice
One stage-appropriate activity for Bernice was this colorful set of lacing beads. In her case it was also interest-appropriate, since she was a professional seamstress. Notice how her particular personality came out in the way she kept her design balanced and symmetrical (below).
These beads are brightly colored and vary in shape. They provide visual and tactile stimulation as well as providing exercise for the hands and fingers, and the stringing process helps to maintain hand-eye coordination.
Sometimes Holly helped with the actual stringing process. That was better than letting Bernice become frustrated if she was having trouble. Handling the beads, exploring the shapes and designs with her hands and eyes was good stimulation. And when she did succeed getting a bead, or several, onto the lace, she felt that was an accomplishment.
Admiring the completed necklace, Bernice said that it looked “very professional.” Looking at this picture of herself modeling her creation, she thought that it was beautiful, but that she looked “so old.” She forgot sometimes that she was 94, something that caregivers need to remember when working with people with Alzheimer’s disease.
Bernice was obviously pleased with the product of her “activity”. Reflecting, she said, “It was fun to do. If you have something fun to do, you will never feel old.”
This is most likely not the way she would have viewed this particular activity 20 years ago. The changes brought on by Alzheimer’s disease, however, made this a perfectly appropriate activity for her, and one that obviously gave her the pleasure of accomplishment.
Incidentally, Bernice was agitated when Holly arrived for her visit on this day. Holly’s presence and the activity of creating her necklace made a marked improvement in her mood.
A review of 27 studies that took place between 1974 and 2005 concluded that exercise had a positive effect on persons with Alzheimer’s disease and dementia. Specifically, programs that were fairly frequent (at least three times a week, and preferably daily), and included walking, had positive effects on mood and sleep, and decreased incidents of disruptive behavior.
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Hi my father has just been diagnosed with severe graded altzermers he is 85. I’m trying to get together some activities for him to do. I’ve got some children’s jigsaw puzzles would they be ideal or do you think he won’t do them as they are for children ? Also I’ve got some colouring books, some are adult and some are children’s , do you think he’ll be put off with the children ones? What I want to know is do they know they are playing with children’s toys?
Hi Tina – Everyone is different. Puzzles and coloring books are both good activities, but your will have to do a little exploring to see how your father reacts to them. We have some simple puzzles (few and larger pieces) that don’t have cartoonish themes. Adult coloring books are available as well, both here and elsewhere, that have pictures and designs that are not particularly childish. Don’t be put off if he does not immediately pick up on the activities you have, unless he strenuously objects. It can be hard for someone in his position to start something like that. If that happens, you can start coloring or putting puzzles pieces together. He is more likely to join than to initiate a new activity. Good luck, and let us know how it goes.
Finding engaging activities that are meaningful and interesting for someone with dementia isn’t always easy. Some additional ideas are provided in this article: https://homewithyou.com/activities-for-dementia/
Music is one of the most effective means of reaching someone with dementia, even in the later stages. Regardless of the advancement of the disease, it’s so important to find activities that are engaging and meaningful. This article shares some additional ideas: https://compassionstl.com/advantages-of-exercise/
Caiyun, did you ever receive an answer to your question? I’d like to know what there thoughts were.
Cheryl from Cali
I am so happy to have found your website.
I have a question regarding introducing and engaging elderly in activities.
What is the appropriate way to introduce and engage the older adults in activities in terms of communication?